BACP-registered psychotherapy built around gay male psychology from the ground up. Minority stress, internalised homophobia, attachment patterns formed under closeted conditions — not afterthoughts to be accommodated. The territory itself.
You don't have to explain what it means to be gay to your therapist before you can get to the actual work. This is a practice where that's already understood.— The clinical starting point
If you've tried therapy before and found it technically competent but somehow beside the point — a practice built specifically around gay male psychology, with fifteen years of specialist experience, is likely to reach further.
The clinical attention is calibrated to the psychological terrain gay men actually navigate.
The threat-detection system that kept you safe, now running where it isn't needed.
Read more → ShameThe beliefs about self that formed in environments that treated gay identity as a problem.
Read more → RelationshipsPatterns of connecting and withdrawing formed when being fully known was dangerous.
Read more → CompulsivePatterns managing specific unmet needs, not failures of willpower.
Read more → IdentityThe specific psychological territory of midlife gay men and beyond.
Read more → ConnectionThe particular disconnection gay men carry and what the work addresses.
Read more → Sex & bodyPerformance, body image, and the shame underneath.
Read more → DatingThe patterns that keep showing up across partners.
Read more →Direct through the calendar. No phone tag. The first session functions as a clinical assessment and the work begins there.
Via secure video call. The practical requirements: a private space, a reliable internet connection, and 50 minutes uninterrupted.
Most clients begin weekly. Some move to fortnightly once the work is established. Frequency is reviewed as the work develops.
€135 per 50-minute session. No package, no minimum commitment. A client agreement covering fees, cancellation and confidentiality is shared at the start.
Built around gay male psychology, online across the UK and Europe.
BACP-registered online therapy across England, Scotland, Wales, Northern Ireland.
Open → LondonLondon-specific page for the UK capital.
Open → IrelandOnline psychotherapy for gay men in Ireland.
Open → EuropeSpain, Germany, France, Netherlands, Belgium and more.
Open →Yes. Research across multiple studies and presenting concerns consistently shows online therapy produces equivalent outcomes to in-person work. The therapeutic relationship forms effectively via video call.
The UK, Ireland, Spain, Denmark, Norway, Greece, Cyprus, Netherlands, Germany, France, Belgium, Sweden, Portugal, and most European countries. Sessions are conducted online via secure video call.
Each 50-minute session is €135. Sessions are billed individually — no package, no minimum commitment.
If you've been in therapy before and found it technically competent but beside the point, a practice built specifically around gay male psychology is likely to reach further. The first session is a clinical assessment — the fit becomes clear quickly.
50 minutes. Most clients begin weekly, particularly at the start. Some move to fortnightly once the work is established. Frequency is agreed collaboratively.
Ongoing therapy for gay men in the UK and Europe, or The Formation Programme — six structured sessions, available worldwide.